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Oliver N Mark's avatar

Spot on with the description of 2025 – there is much work to be done my friend! Keep going 🚀

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Tamy Faierman M.D.'s avatar

Magnificent piece of writing ✍️ Tristan 👏🏻

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Will's avatar

What a beautiful read Tristan - the vividness of your stories and the expressiveness of your message; very resonant my friend!

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Tristan Hoh's avatar

Thank you sir. I wrote from the heart, and I'm glad part of it resonated. Seriously, your words mean a lot.

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Keith's avatar

“The subtle breath-in, breath-out,

no matter the cadence or rhythm.”

Automatic for some - breathing! Others, like me, not so easy - lung issues. But, you’ll love how they were discovered: at the end of scuba dive #796, paralyzed from the navel down. Thus began a process to ultimately discover pulmonary fibrosis. I survived.

Breathing - automatic, until it isn’t!

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Tristan Hoh's avatar

Sounds like an interesting story, Keith. Sounds like you’re a resilient person.

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Vicki James's avatar

This reminds me of my favorite exercise to combat anxiety. Also, now I'm craving coffee and a cinnamon roll. I think I know what is for breakfast tomorrow

5-4-3-2-1 Coping Technique for Anxiety

5: Acknowledge FIVE things you see around you. It could be a pen, a spot on the ceiling, anything in your surroundings.

4: Acknowledge FOUR things you can touch around you. It could be your hair, a pillow, or the ground under your feet.

3: Acknowledge THREE things you hear. This could be any external sound. If you can hear your belly rumbling that counts! Focus on things you can hear outside of your body.

2: Acknowledge TWO things you can smell. Maybe you are in your office and smell pencil, or maybe you are in your bedroom and smell a pillow. If you need to take a brief walk to find a scent you could smell soap in your bathroom, or nature outside.

1: Acknowledge ONE thing you can taste. What does the inside of your mouth taste like—gum, coffee, or the sandwich from lunch?

https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/behavioral-health-partners/bhp-blog/april-2018/5-4-3-2-1-coping-technique-for-anxiety

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Tristan Hoh's avatar

thanks for sharing this Vicki! Sounds like a quick and practical tool to tether into the moment. How often do you practice this?

Also, I must know how breakfast was today :)

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Joe Nichols's avatar

Good stuff Tristan. I will now order a coffee to savor in your name. Been running wild this week.

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Tristan Hoh's avatar

That warms my heart. And what a lovely word— savor. You deserve the full pleasure of a cup of Joe, Joe.

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Ryan Reiffer's avatar

I love this! Being present and enjoying right here, right now, (in my experience) is the main way to reach a more constant joy in life.

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Tristan Hoh's avatar

Such an underrated truth.

“Be with what’s happening”

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